Through Thick and Thin
Take your relationship to new frontiers often. Travel, discover new ways to surprise each other, dress differently, speak differently, dance together, learn a language and NEVER GIVE UP on the new that can be created in your sacred union.
In a world of fast-paced, quick fixes and short term gratification, we are quick to throw away our relationships when they ‘get tough’. Yes, relationships have us by dates, however… Many expire too early! And we miss the chance to grow. And many can survive and thrive if we are willing to do the work and show up, especially if there is a foundation of trust, respect, and connection.
We forget the importance of effort in a relationship. We also dismiss the equal power of novelty and stability in our loving interactions. I spent so much time in the past focused on ‘looking good’ in the relationship that I forget to pay attention to creating substance in the relationship.
I ask you this… When was the last time you truly asked a deep question of your beloved? When was the last time you really felt the essence of their truth and needs? Sacred union requires a deep attentive practice of willingness.
To get the most from any experience we must feel fully who we are in the world. We must love ourselves to the extent that the want to experience that love with others. In order to flourish in union, we must be willing to shatter old paradigms of belief that no longer serve our newly forged path.
Are you willing to create a life of endless possibility? Can you embrace the challenges as you embrace the joy? Can you continue to show up even if your ego is pulling you away? Our wounding dictates so much of how we experience intimacy.
When we see and feel beyond our wounding and realize that our beloved is there to help us grow both consciously and unconsciously, we experience a level of connection and intimacy that is truly liberating and supportive. The challenge then is welcomed because we have committed to growing in togetherness.
Let your beloved know you are with them through thick and thin!
One is glad to be of service.
