What Is A Desirable Man?

You want that rebellious masculine edge, yet you fear it… You yearn for safety, yet you wish to not be engulfed by it. You dream of excitement and boundary-breaking, yet you are apprehensive of it. You want the unknown, yet you scream for certainty, consistency and continuity.

You want that REBEL to take you and you simultaneously want to feel safe in his arms. You want to trust him completely but without inconsistency in how he shows up for you. You desire him to ravish you but only from deep trust and reverence.

There is a part of the feminine psyche that yearns for the unknown edge of man but without the doubt and the fear of being rejected, ignored, objectified or used. What a beautiful dream… A dream that can exist and that does. Easy to find…? Mmmm, not so much. Impossible…? Definitely not.

A man who speaks his truth. Knows his worth, pursues his life’s calling and is unwavering in the face of challenge is a man that is magnetic. A man that will defend you (not because you are weak, but because he cares), fight alongside you and for you, believe in you and walk his path, all the while revering you profoundly.

These men exist. A man, who is competent with his hands, can fight, has an emotive range when required, knows how to express anger and aggression healthily and carry’s that authentic flirtatious edge. This man exists.

A man who trusts his own volition and listens to the voice within is a man you can trust. Couple that with a man that respects your voice, mind, heart and body and you have a man that is consistently safe in his expression. A man that knows who he is, what he wants and communicates that is a man that you can fully relax with.

When that man entices you, has an air of mystery about him and owns that; he is a man that carries exponential value, presence and authentic power. A power that he will not use to harm, but rather to hold, give and serve. A man that places his purposefulness in the trenches of action creates meaningful momentum.

This is a man that one can trust. What man do you desire? And what man will you choose to be?

One is glad to be of service.